How Do You Define Ugly?
Yes, seriously . . . How do you define ugly?
- By Physical Appearance – do you define someone as ugly because of looks. Based on the People who may be unattractive in appearance and unappealing to you . . . probably don’t consider themselves as unattractive! And you know others who are beautiful, but are never satisfied with the way they look. the aybe it is based on skin color, hair . . . maybe their clothing or shoes.
- By Attitude – do you define someone as ugly because of actions. Based on their selfishness and lack of concern for others. Could it be how mean they treat others including their own families, friends, children, etc. Maybe it is how materialistic, negative, and pessimistic they are most of the time and the “self-pity party” attitude. An attractive face means nothing with a rotten attitude.
- By Character Traits – do you define someone as ugly because of behavior. By watching how they interact with the world and paying attention to how they treat and interact with you. Could they be filled with jealousy, envy, greed, and/or dishonesty. Maybe they are bossy, conceited, self-centered, and rude. Their lack of values and beliefs would conflict with anyone who has a value and belief system.
Remember that physical appearance alone . . . does not define a person. And an attitude can be checked and/or corrected with the right information or education . . . sometimes. But character traits are who they truly are. It is their personality, their consciousness, and their way of thinking. When someone shows you who they truly are, whether good, bad or ugly . . . believe them!