Who is Listening?
The positive affirmation for the month is what are you talking about? But the real question for you to ask yourself is “who is listening”?
Are you the recipient of one-sided conversations? At work, at home, with family or friends; always there to listen to someone else. But when it is time for you to tell someone about your happiness … are they happy for you? When times are bad… are they there to console you?
Probably not! Because they were not listening to you.
Meaningful conversations have benefits. Benefits that include building and fostering meaningful relationships, a sounding board for new ideas or decisions, the ability to speak openly and honestly, and most importantly . . . changes how we see the world around us.
Although conversations happen everyday of your life, almost half of them are meaningless. Meaningful conversations can make a big difference to the quality of your life. Ask yourself . . . are those conversations worth your time? How much time can you save by eliminating meaningless conversations on a daily basis? Think of all the free time you can have doing something else.
If you are a great listener . . . find someone to talk to! If you are a great talker . . . start listening!
- Stop, Look, Listen. (jaybirdslady.wordpress.com)
- The Psychology of Constructing a Conversation (psychcentral.com)
- Am I Your Therapist or Your Friend? (fashionandflowers.com)